How we define GOD and how we choose to worship are personal decisions. For me I want a minister who gives me positive inspiration about how to live my life in a way that benefits others who may be less fortunate.
I don't need anymore guilt. I got enough of that growing up. I want a minister who gives me an uplifting message to think about, and who challenges me to look at the world from a different vantage point. For me, Joel Olsteen does that. His new book Becoming a Better You: 7 Keys to Improving Your Life Every Day is a most read.
In your form of worship, I hope you find the spititual nourishment that you need.